In my Member’s Only Success Coaching  group this month, we are discussing “Empowering Relationships”.  Relationships with yourself, with others, and with change.  All of these relationships in your life have their place and will either empower or disempower you, depending on whether you’re intentionally controlling them or letting them control you. 

Intentionally nurturing and developing your relationships involves taking an honest look at where you are and making a plan to close the gap between your current reality and where you want to be.

Your ability to create, maintain and nurture meaningful and empowering relationships is a measure of your capacity to establish connection, rapport, and intimacy with another human being.  

There are 7 principles of relating that you can use to increase this capacity and thereby develop a greater closeness and connection with those around you:

• Be willing to Risk
• Be Available
• Be more Interested than Interesting
• Be who you are
• Don’t make assumptions
• Accept without condition

Think about each of these 7 principles and ask yourself, “How well do I currently apply this principle to my relationship with myself AND with other people?”  Think about what may need to change or happen for you to be able to apply this principle without reservation.  What could be possible in your life if each of these habits were as natural as breathing? 

To make any lasting change, it takes simply getting started, taking baby steps, and pushing through the excuses.  Just being consciously aware of these principles in all of your realtionships with create shift. The more you practice, the more habitual it becomes.

 I love this picture of my sister-in-law, one of best girlfriends and me on a wine tour in Napa Valley. Love these girls!

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Love and Success!

Lori